The Do`s and Dont`s when you are going out on a date (Rule no. 2)

Rule no. 2 - Girls, especially if you are attached, dont freaking leech the guys.

Once in a while leeching off his wallet is fine. But not all the time.
Come on pretty ladies, i know you will dig for branded goods, pretty clothes, long vacation, and everything, but dont be so demanding. It kills you. Being materialistic with the guy you love, is not a good sign.

You might scare him. He might think of this two ideas:
1. You love him just because he got money around his belly 24/7...
2. As a result, he might lose you if hes broke and unemployed.
3. He get stressed, trying to figure out what other materialistic things that will make you smile for your next months anniversary. or maybe, you only say i love you to him when you receive something from him.

Ok, thats not 2 ideas. But seriously, to me, going out with him will be a blessing already. Seeing him smile would be a good gift for me. Well, yeah, maybe for birthdays and yearly anniversaries, buying something expensive would be nice, but of course, an eye for an eye. You cannot argue with your boyfriend because he didnt buy you anything for this month when he already bought you 1000 bucks worth of diamond studded necklace.

I wouldnt, Id rather leech off him after im married (to him), i mean, by then, we would be trying to put a certain amount in a shared account and spending stuff for our home, for our kids, for our holidays together. To me, that will be a nice thing and a nice responsibility together. Easy to say ya? We are just creatures of habits, we do need to be reminded.

So, we girls also need to be responsible on a date. Why dont we offer to pay for ourselves at least, and if you think your guy is too egoistic or insists on paying... then order the food for him instead, and give the change thats just for his meal. He might not notice it if its a big note or something, but do insist if you can. Or before you set out on a date tonight, say that the bills on you. Dont always pressurise him with the responsibility he already have by supporting you. Share it with him. =)

Yeah, when i was working in a restaurant, this sweet couple pushed the bill to me, and asked me to accept the money from their hands. The lady insists to pay for the meal, but the guy keep saying that he wont be gentleman if he doesnt do so. I was pretty confused on which hand i should receive the bill from, but, i ended up saying, Sir, if thats okay with you, you can pay for her next meal instead. Ladies first! (lame joke and i smiled.) He said to the lady, 'oh, okay, the next one is on me, that you need to promise.' Which she did. pretty sensible right?

So... if hes the Right Guy for you, heed this bcos, i dont think you wanna get married any later... You might be leeching off the money hes saving up for your marriage.